Now I understand the reason why writing will always make me feels good. I always wonder why does it feel good to pour your thought out for others to discover?
It is an opportunity to be heard and it feels good to be heard.
And the soul-nourishing month of Ramadhan has ended while the joyful Syawal has begun. It’s interesting to observe how people around you interpreted their belief system. Am not talking about the belief system between different religions but I am more concern about the different interpretation of the same belief system.
Islam is just one belief, one teaching and one God … don’t add yourself as another interpretation of other arrogant God.
If you believe that a religion is beautiful then your interpretation of that religion should be that beautiful too. If the teaching of a beautiful religion is to worship the Al-Mighty while at the same time to look for the best in human (as we humans are created as an equal Khalifah on this earth), to bring out the best in human-being and to unite people of various races in the world … stick with that teaching and please interpret this beautiful religion rightfully.
I felt frustrated with the arrogant believer that think that they are better off in front of Allah just because they have better religion knowledge (they believe so) than the rest. If you think that you have more knowledge than others please SHARE in a well-manner more civilize way. Not through a barbaric way as we are now living in an informative and intelligent era. Everybody has their own limitations and challenges … the sincerity of the heart matter the most; the HEART MATTER …
Sorry for the long ranting … I got distracted by the MAN who thinks that part of his leg is already firmly planted on Allah’s Heaven. Well … the more I see the more I want to ask why? And, a woman who always asks WHY is a nuisance for such MAN MADE FOR HEAVEN (so he think so).
Sharing my thought and my latest article in NST about how to capture the spirit of Hari Raya (eid) from a photographer’s point of view aka my point of view.
Eid Mubarak to all my readers.
Cheers,
MM
ps- The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “The believer is friendly and befriended, for there is no goodness in one who is neither friendly nor befriended. The best of people are those who are most beneficial to people.”
While travelling in Mongolia, their nomadic lifestyle caught my attention.
After embracing a minimalist mindset a few years ago, I gradually found myself drawn to the idea of living with a nomadic mindset, too.
Not that I’m ready to pack my bags and move from place to place just yet — hmmm, not yet — but I sense (acewah, boleh plak sense lol) that thinking like a nomad allows me to explore life more freely. Carrying unnecessary baggage, whether physical or emotional, only weighs me down. Being too attached to materials or even people can quietly hold me back from stepping beyond my comfort zone.
Having the chance to live with real nomads in Mongolia, even for just a few days, was a deeply nourishing experience. About half of Mongolia’s population still leads a nomadic life, herding their livestock freely across the vast open lands — a humbling reminder of what it means to live simply and freely.
Origil lives in Terelj National Park, Ulaan Bataar, Mongolia
They live in gers — large, comfortable, tent-like homes that can be packed up and moved from one campsite to another at least four times a year. This seasonal migration helps them find the best pastures for their livestock and shields them from Mongolia’s harsh climate, especially during winter.
Living in a ger frees them from the burden of rent or bank mortgages — a refreshing kind of freedom, far removed from the financial pressures many of us face. It was my first time in Mongolia and my very first encounter with anything related to Mongolian culture.
The food, the people, the traditions, the biting winter — everything was completely new to me. Luckily, our local guide, Alma, had everything perfectly planned out. We were like empty shells, ready to be filled with whatever Mongolian adventures she had in store for us.
The freezing winter didn’t stop us from exploring. There was even a moment when we found ourselves lost in the middle of nowhere — an unfamiliar valley blanketed in thick snow that had completely hidden the trail (which was really just faint tyre marks across a vast plain). At that point, we surrendered entirely to Alma and our driver, Oyunna — trusting their instincts and experience to guide us through.
It was, without a doubt, one of the rawest adventures I’d ever had.
I’ll be sharing a few photos of the people we met along our eight-day journey through Ulaanbaatar and beyond. Looking back at these images reminds me of their warmth, their generous hospitality, and all the funny, heartwarming moments we shared while trying our best to blend in with their culture.
We spent two days at Janat’s home, a warm, welcoming Kazakh Mongolian family. Every morning and afternoon, we’d watch Janat and his son, Bota, tending to their herd. It was like a live documentary of nomadic life, except this time, we were inside the story.
The family treated us like one of their own. We even shared their daily meals and that’s where things got interesting. I had my first taste of steamed horse meat and, unknowingly, chewed on steamed cow testicle like a pro (only found out after I swallowed it… classic me). Honestly, I’m not picky when it comes to food. As long as it’s halal and edible, I’m good to go. If no one had told me it was horse meat or a cow testicle, I probably wouldn’t have noticed anyway. Meat tastes like meat to me. First time for everything, right? He he he.
Living in a minimalist home, a ger, was kinda cool too… except for one thing. The toilet was sooo faaar aaawaayyy. Imagine this: winter temperature below -17℃, icy winds slapping your face, and your mind desperately negotiating with your bladder … “Nope, not now, please hold it in!” 😂. Let’s just say, I’ve collected quite a few hilarious toilet stories during this trip — but those are reserved for personal requests only!
To reach Janat’s home, we had to travel for hours across a roadless plain, guided only by the mountains and our fearless driver’s gut instinct. To be honest with you, I completely lost track of where we were but that’s the charm of Mongolia. Getting lost is part of the adventure.
Grandma’s homeGrandma Dorjsuren with her daughter Enkhtuul (purple) and Oyunna (blue)
Then there was Grandma Dorjsuren.
We stayed for a night with Grandma Dorjsuren Dambiinyam and her hardworking daughter. To reach her place, we have to travel for hours wandering on a roadless plain … towards a certain mountain, he he he I also lost track of our whereabouts.
At first glance, she looked like the strict, no-nonsense type — the kind who’d give you that look if you misbehaved. But when she hugged me, oh my… her warmth melted me right away. I liked her instantly. Actually, I think my soul liked her even more. Their gers were tucked behind a small hill, but even that couldn’t protect us from the freezing wind that shook our tent all night long.
Still, I told myself — I’m tough, like a nail stuck in a wall! 💪
Grandpa Bor with his livestock
We also spent a night with Grandpa Bor (in his 80s) and Grandma Yandag (in her 70s). Don’t be fooled by his sweet, innocent face — this grandpa is full of jokes and cheeky charm! Fun fact: he and his wife once appeared in a fashion magazine as models for Mongolia’s tourism campaign. Talk about a power couple!
The journey to their valley was wild. Thick snow, white plains, and absolutely no sign of a road. Honestly, I still don’t know how our guide managed to drive us there. GPS? Gut feeling? Pure magic, maybe!
On our way to Grandpa Bor’s home. Oyunna manually changed the tyre setting to 4×4
Grandpa proudly told me that he once owned over a thousand goats and sheep before sharing them with his children. Their livestock is seriously tough; they can survive temperatures as low as -17°C! Totally different breed from our pampered tropical goats back home.
When I showed him photos of goats from my country — Jamnapari, Boer, and Saanen — he burst into laughter. He couldn’t get over the fact that our goats have such long ears and are bald with no fur! Despite the language barrier, Grandpa Bor was a natural comedian. His jokes were so weirdly funny that I often needed a full five minutes just to understand them. But one thing was clear — I could feel his sincerity through every laugh.
Hmmm… observing their nomadic lifestyle and listening to their stories about moving from one place to another made me reflect on what resilience truly means, the quiet strength to adapt and flow with life’s unpredictability.
To live in rhythm with nature, to follow the seasons, to build and rebuild a home wherever the land welcomes you, what a profound lesson in letting go. Moving four times a year doesn’t make them restless; it makes them flexible, grounded, and alive.
And being a nomad doesn’t mean being cut off from the world. They are connected in their own beautiful way. Solar panels illuminate their gers and power their daily appliances, while their trucks transport them across the vast, open plains. They live simply, yet they live fully.
Perhaps that’s what I long to learn — to carry a nomadic spirit within my minimalist path. To travel lighter, not only in possessions but also in thoughts and emotions. To embrace change with grace, and to trust that wherever life leads, I’ll find my footing again.
Looking back at these photos makes me long for more. More adventures that open my heart, and more quiet lessons that shape my minimalist soul. Mongolia reminded me that life doesn’t have to be filled to feel full. Sometimes, the less we hold on to, the more we can receive. The nomads I met taught me that home isn’t a fixed place; it’s a state of being. It’s in the wind, the laughter shared over simple meals, and the courage to keep moving forward, no matter how uncertain the road may be.
With that, I’ll see you at my next post.
Cheers,
MM
“My great hope is to laugh as much as I cry; to get my work done and try to love somebody and have the courage to accept the love in return” ~ Maya Angelou
Who sees the human face correctly: the photographer, the mirror, or the painter? ~ Pablo Picasso
I am always puzzled when people ask me on what sort of photographer am I? And, before I could even finish answering that question … they’ll start pushing me into another question … do you shoot weddings? I guess everybody with a camera shoot wedding these days.
Not that I don’t shoot weddings. I do. I shoot weddings too if the price worth my effort. It seemed that everybody wanted a piece of a photographer. They expect diamond but paying peanuts. Charging as low as RM500 to cover for a wedding is crazy. With the amount of effort, time and gears used to shoot the lovely groom and bride for a few hours … I think it is just cruelty and an insult to even consider offering that to a photographer.
Me … I tried my best not to negotiate with my potential customer, pay me on how much my work worth to you but bear in mind that I know how much I am worth.
Pose 1: A sadhu that we met at Pashupatinath Temple, Kathmandu, Nepal
Okay! back to my story for today. As at now … I am still obsessed with photographing human face. This is a series of photos that I took of a Sadhu in Kathmandu, Nepal.
He has a very long hair that he can even wear it as a turban. He has an amazing personality, charming and smiled politely during an hour of our photo session. Fyi, as you walk through the back lane of the temple you will stumble into a few sadhus that gather freely around the area. We spotted him and wanted to take his picture. And yes … it was not free.
Sharing some of his poses here.
Pose 2: Capturing him in frames within frames
Pose 3: Trying different angles that show his crown aka hairs
Pose 4: He is a bit relax here with a hint of smile hidden under his mustache. Maybe he is amused by my antics
Pose 5: Rapunzel … Rapunzel … let down your hair
Pose 6: Namaste! My favorite pose of all
I love the earthy tone if his skin, his hair and his emotion shown on each poses. These pictures are a keeper moment for me. Gorgeous face …
“Don’t think. Thinking is the enemy of creativity. It’s self-conscious, and anything self-conscious is lousy. You can’t try to do things. You simply must do things.” ~ Ray Bradbury
2017.03.27 – am at home recuperating. I was on the road for almost 22 days. 16 days backpacking with 2 of my travel buddies and another 6 days back home to my mom’s at Bachok, Kelantan (7 hours drive from Kuala Lumpur).
My head is full of stories now … stories about my traveling moments (which I intended to write about it in my next post), about my mom, about my loved ones, about my new kitty, my maid who ran off from home, my never ending sleep deprived etc … ahh and today’s post is just about my work this month. Well … keeping every each of it here for my own reference.
My article in ‘NST bots click’ for March 2017And, my new mischievous kitty looking up
My article for NST on March 2017 is about what to shoot in the market.
And, that new kitty, Nala aka Lala is everywhere in the house. We have another adult cat by the name of ‘Chicken’. Being the only cat for 11 years makes my ‘Chicken’ a very dominant cat and we are having a hard time right now … to convince ‘Chicken’ that the new kitty is here to stay.
Chicken feeling cozyCaught Chicken at his worst
And my work appeared in a local magazine too. Well … I am honored. I hope that all this would be a stepping stone towards more opportunity for me to CREATE.
Off I go. Will write about my journey in Mongolia and Lake Baikal soon.
A lady sitting on the floor of a market in Bantul, Jogjakarta
I was in Jogjakarta, Indonesia for a few days in mid-November last month. Hanging out at Kota Gede with my local photographer friend, Romeography of Studio 76. We planned to wander aimlessly around the east part of Jogjakarta with our cameras.
It was already the beginning of monsoon season here in Southeast Asia … and I was pretty sure that the sky would be dull and the light would be challenging in Jogjakarta too, as the raining season is here to stay until at least towards the end of January next year
After a few failed attempts to hunt for sunrises and sunsets, we decided not to waste our time wandering around hunting for gorgeous landscape anymore… we were out on the street focusing on human interest instead.
Plaosan temple at sunset
We hang around markets mingling with locals selling all sorts of daily items. We snuck around a group of people selling roosters or cocks for the gamecocks or cockfights. Uh … scary sight of bleeding roosters fighting for its life.
Spontaneous gamecocks
6-months old rooster was for sale at rp600,000
Caged birds were for sale
Mbah Madio selling palm tree sugar at a market in Bantul, Jogjakarta
Wandering around with motorbike hunting for subjects and lights has its pros and cons. Other than the pain in the butt (from sitting on a small seat for too long), it was also the risk of getting wet from the rain.
But … it was the easiest way to move around from point A to point B without having to worry about the condition of our routes plus we can just park the bike anywhere we wish. Talking about convenience right …
The horses of Malioboro street were having their morning bath here at a river near Bantul, Jogjakarta
Hunting for light at the nearby bridge in Bantul, Jogjakarta
Farmers along side of the road in Bantul, Jogjakarta
Spent a few hours here at Pak Sugiman’s workplace at Putat Village, Gunung Kidul, Jogjakarta
Well … the rain doesn’t stop me from achieving my primary goal for this trip lol … which was to have a stress free moment chasing the light. I had a great time … getting close and personal with my subjects, good food and good companion all the way … ahhh I couldn’t ask for more, alhamdullilah.
My closing sunset for this trip. A dramatic sunset due to the unpredictable weather
We are planning for more future trips to explore more of the landscape surrounding Jogjakarta … maybe after the monsoon season is over. Who knows … In Sha Allah
And …. life goes on and on … and I am learning throughout the journey. Learning to be grateful for each moment that Allah presented to me. Learning to see and accept people as who they are. Learning to love every soul that cross path my journey … and letting go the one that decided to venture out of my path. People changed … a heart changed.
“Oh Allah, please ease my path. Guide my iman. Guide my every single actions. Guide me to love for Your sake. Protect what is in my heart. What lies in the future, only You know. Verily, Allah is All-Knower, Most Merciful and Most Gracious.”